Choose your path · Telehealth · California

Find peace in your life by taking care of you.

Therapy focused on meaning, connection, and healthy boundaries, for adults who want to feel more like themselves. Warm, non-judgmental sessions by Zoom with Matthew Gilford, LMFT.

Availability
Accepting new clients
Format
Zoom · Adults only
License
LMFT #105370 · CA
Matthew Gilford, LMFT Free 15-min consult
Aetna
Anthem Blue Cross
Carelon Behavioral Health
Cigna
Evernorth
Independence Blue Cross
IEHP, Inland Empire Health Plan
Quest Behavioral Health
Horizon Blue Cross Blue Shield of New Jersey

01 / About

Who I am, what I do.

I'm a Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist in California. Over twelve years of practice, I've worked in adult outpatient, inpatient, and residential programs, with extensive experience treating substance abuse and addictions of various kinds.

Every person has the capacity for positive growth and useful self-discovery. In our sessions, we'll explore your thoughts and feelings, uncover what truly matters to you, and work on establishing boundaries that actually hold. My aim is to create a warm space where you can express yourself authentically and move toward a life that feels like yours.

I love being a therapist, and I look forward to the work that we'll do together.

02 / Does this sound familiar?

If any of this rings true, you're not alone.

01Your life feels beyond your own control.
02You're always tending to others while your own needs go unmet.
03Saying "no" causes an unreasonable amount of guilt.
04You feel alone with these problems, like nobody else would understand.

We can work on these together, in a safe, supportive, non-judgmental way. Start with a free 15-minute call, no pressure, no forms, just a conversation to see if we'd be a good fit.

Start with a free call
03 / Specialties

What I help with, most often.

feelings & mood

  • Depression
  • Anxiety
  • Loneliness
  • Anger & rage
  • Stress

relationships & family

  • Codependency
  • Family conflict
  • Addictions
  • Non-traditional relationships / Polyam
  • LGBTQ+

identity & health

  • Chronic physical illness
  • LGBTQ+ identity & experience
  • Life transitions
  • Meaning & purpose
  • Boundaries
04 / Insurance & fees

Covered by most major plans.

If your plan isn't listed, send a quick message, I'll check whether we can still work together.

  • Aetna
  • Anthem Blue Cross
  • Carelon Behavioral Health
  • Cigna
  • Evernorth
  • IEHP
  • Independence BC of PA
  • Quest Behavioral Health
  • Horizon Blue Cross & Blue Shield of New Jersey
$150
Self-pay rate per 50-minute session, if you're uninsured.
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05 / Also offering

Beyond one-on-one therapy.

06 / Contact

Let's see if we're a good fit.

Book a free 15-minute consultation by phone, text, or email. There's no commitment, it's just a chance for the two of us to talk and see whether I'm the right therapist for you.

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